Reasons Not to Stay Married
The negative connotations regarding divorce compel countless people to stay in unhappy marriages, simply because they don’t want to face the challenges ahead. At Smith Law Offices, LLC, we have seen a wide range of divorces, ranging from surprisingly easy to absolutely atrocious. Most cases fall somewhere in the middle. What our divorce lawyers have found is not many people regret getting divorced. On the other hand, most people leave an unhappy marriage and never look back. The consequences of staying in a bad marriage are lifelong and can seriously impact your overall quality of life. Not only will you be perpetually unhappy, so will your children and all other involved parties.
Facing the Unknown
Many people stay married out of fear of the unknown. Despite its commonality, this is not a valid reason to stay in a relationship you don’t want to be in. Remaining paralyzed in a state of stagnation with an unhappy marriage is a surefire way to waste your life away with someone who you aren’t going to be happy with.
Should You Stay Married for Your Child?
Too many people stay married for the sake of their children, believing a complete household means keeping everyone together. Yet, this is one of the biggest misconceptions a parent can make. Children pick up on far more than you believe, and many would prefer living with 2 separately happy parents than 1 miserable couple who can’t stand to be around each other. Adults who were once children of divorce often lament at the fact their parents didn’t just make it easier on everyone and separate. Instead of showing them what an unhappy marriage looks like, show your children what happy separation can be. Be an example of independence, self-love, and sacrifice.
Family Law Attorneys in St. Charles, MO
Divorce is an option for a reason, as you are not obligated to stay married to someone who no longer makes you happy. This process certainly isn’t a walk in the park, but it is almost always worth it. You will never know what is waiting for you on the other side until you follow your gut, let go of your misconceptions, and conquer your fear. Staying in a bad marriage is never worth it. At Smith Law Offices, LLC, we want to help you transition into a new chapter of your life with ease.
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Blog Author: Attorney Nevada M. Smith
Nevada M. Smith received his J.D. from University of Missouri-Columbia School of Law. He received the Client Distinction Award three years in a row.
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